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What do you think about this friend ?

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KatvonC · 01/01/2020 15:54

Well i'm not exactly sure I can call her a close friend, I met her through a friend of mine she's close with.
She can come across as quite frosty the first time you meet her but apparently it's shyness. Anyway I found her a little intimidating as she also comes across as very sure of herself, but tried to be friendly with her.

I thought we had had a good chat on a night out and then apparently she said to my friend "You could tell she was really nervous".
I did the ombre hair thing for my friend, and then apparently this girl saw it and said, "No, that's not how you do it. Next time i'll do it."

I thought she had an issue with me but then one day she messaged me saying she had a spare room and was looking for a flatmate. I was maybe relocating so didn't want to commit to something then have to leave again, but I was flattered she had asked me.

A few weeks later, she still didn't have anyone and asked me again, offering reduced rent. I wrote back, trying to explain in more detail why I couldn't. Then she said to my friend about me, "She wrote me yet another long message this morning.".

Then I saw her one night at a party and chatted to her a little more and she was friendly.

I don't know what to make of her at all. Maybe she's just very two-faced. I felt like she didn't like me, but then why ask me to move in with you ? Can't work her out at all.

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Singlemammaxx · 01/01/2020 16:47

She sounds like someone who I used to be friends with. I got rid of her and then because she hadn’t heard from me in a long time she went round saying I had died Hmm

SoleBizzz · 01/01/2020 16:55
Shock
KatvonC · 01/01/2020 16:57

Singlemama that's awful 😔😔 how dare she

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KatvonC · 01/01/2020 17:03

Whilst we are on the subject, another friend, who I suspect has decided she can't be bothered with me any more.

When I told her I had a few hundred pounds savings she wrote back, 'a few hundred 😂😂😂'.

I told her that someone we used to work with wasn't really very chatty anymore by text and she replied, "He's moved on 😂😂".

I had been two-timed by a guy and she told me, "I think you need to just get over it to be honest" 1 week after it happened.

At work (we used to work together) if I was writing an email to HR or something she would read it out aloud over my shoulder.

Sometimes she's just a bit draining. She likes to tell me all the time i'm 'harsh', but then she can be supportive and encouraging too.

However the last few times I've texted her she gives very short and uninterested replies, so I will just leave her to it, and see if she messages first.

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Grumpelstilskin · 01/01/2020 19:29

I think you misspelled 'cunt'... Grin

KatvonC · 01/01/2020 19:45

Do you mean the first or 2nd one ? 😂

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Grumpelstilskin · 02/01/2020 20:48

Both Grin

ihatethecold · 02/01/2020 20:56

Singlemammaxx

WTFF Shock

Singlemammaxx · 04/01/2020 01:14

@KatvonC @ihatethecold as much as it sounds awful I just rolled my eyes when I was told because it was just so typical of her to say it 😂 she was the type of girl to pick out another girl and attempt to flirt with their boyfriend in front of everyone! So glad I got rid!

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