My daughter's dad and I split a year ago. He cheated after our daughter was born, I left, he's now with cuntface affair partner.
Since I walked, he was doing his best to hurt me through social media by posting picture of AP lovingly holding our baby, taking her on a date to where I was taking him for Valentine's day etc. Now he's not fussed about hurting me in that way but he does pick and choose when he's nice.
In front of his family, he's cold to me, will often ignore me. When we talk without anyone around, he's lovely, playful, open (he used to be a bit flirty but that's stopped - thank God).
I've always tried to be my usual pleasant self but feel like I've spent a year being mugged off by this man. Am I right to try a new approach by being a lot colder and stand offish with him? Not rude or anything, just not giving him the time of day. It's not the best model for our daughter but neither is him picking and choosing when he's nice. I feel like he looks down on me in front of his family and I'm pretty sick of being taken for a fool.