Really upset and not sure why I’m writing this but just need to vent I suppose.
Was at the in-laws for a few days, all going well but on the last day, just as we were about to leave fil made a nasty comment about a couple of weekends away the family (dh 2 siblings and their families) had for fil birthdays a few years ago and how shit ithey were. There was a comment about not everyone being there. We were all there the first year and it was only me that wasn’t there the second time, due to my dad dying, it being his first birthday since he’d died, and there was another family emergency I had to help out with. I also couldn’t deal with a big family celebration.
So I apologised to fil for grieving for my dad and helping another family member who desperately needed my help and left. Dh totally supports me and had a go at his dad, I sent his mum a text thanking her for having us but heard nothing from them since.
Not sure what’s going to happen now.
I loved my fil, we see things in a very different way but I loved him. Not sure how to get over this.