Before anyone starts telling me off for getting pregnant with my boyfriend in the first place, spare me - things were going well.
Been with boyfriend 2 years. He moved to Liverpool from a place 4 hours away and hasn’t made any friends, his small family are still back home. That’s just a bit of background but I feel that’s part of the issue. We each have our own places but live about 10 min walk from each other. I fell pregnant in November (making me 9w+2 today). And I’m so happy and excited but we as a couple are really struggling.
He has two other children (about 2 now I think) from a one night stand that he doesn’t want to be involved with, which really bothers me despite me encouraging, but I can’t force him. We argue a lot, we see each other less and less as time goes on, he’s really socially awkward around my family and friends so i find it difficult to bring him out sometimes and relax as I worry about him and finally I’ve been to his place a couple of times in these 2 years and honestly, it’s a ,Esw -I couldn’t believe it, he had ripped the flooring up with a view to put more down but never has, dishes and clothes everywhere, a damp smell - I’d worry about bringing the baby round to his. Again, I’ve raised this and he said he’s going to sort it but I’m unsure.
I’m starting to feel like we just aren’t meant to be together - but what do I do? He’s always maintained he do anything for me which 8 believe and I think he’s a great guy but the timing of this is awful given my new situation. I want the best for the baby but as things stand right now he isn’t the best...