Posted on here numerous times about this guy. I ended it before Christmas as it didn’t feel right and I was getting a feeling he was doing the slow fade. He kept saying he was busy, plausible as he was really busy but you know your gut.
Anyway we wished each other merry Christmas on Christmas Day and got chatting again. 27th I ended up staying over at his. We chatted and he said he was sorry etc. He said he was hurt as I made plans for news eve without him and seemed not interested. Basically he wouldn’t commit to seeing me wasn’t sure he had his kid. Kept getting I will see what I can do. My best friend surprised me and knew I didn’t have confirmed plans and decided to travel to spend New Years eve with me. Great, I love seeing her and it was a surprise.
Now he doesn’t Have his kid and made plans to go to a party. Fair dues, it’s one of those situations, but he said I hadn’t given him time to check and dumped our non committal plans and made others, he was upset. He said I was also giving vibes of not being interested. Didn’t realise I was. Ok we had miscommunication.
So we left it the next day as shall see you after New Years. He said he will text me to make plans to come and see me. Still no discussions in getting back together, but see how it goes. He has been quiet over text last few days. In fact ignored my morning text, even though been active online.
I activated my bumble again and found him on it, new pictures and link to his business. Quickly deactivated Mine in a panic. I hope he hasn’t seen me. However, If he was serious in getting back together why active bumble? I know I did the same. We are doomed and probably not right for each other. It’s been a head mess from the start.
We had a conversation in October and he said he couldn’t be 100% committed but wanted to take things slow. Assured me he was not actively using bumble. Now he is. Should I confront him or just leave it? Really sad as I did like him.
We left it at see