Basically my boyfriend and I had a falling out earlier. I sent him home. About an hour ago I received a message from a girl wondering if I was still with him. She then sent me messages he had sent her about 2 hours after I sent him away. Messages saying I had split up with him on Christmas and he hadn't got round to changing Facebook etc etc. Using cringey lines on her. Saying he wants to "take care of her lawn and keep it moist" absolutely disgusting.
He has never done anything like this before, I though he was a nice genuine guy.
Anyway. I sent him the screenshots. Told him he was a scumbag and his stuff will be packed by tomorrow night.
I feel sick, anxious and angry. I now can't sleep and just want to start packing his stuff already.
How do I tell the kids he won't be coming round anymore? Do I tell them the truth and explain why it's not nice to speak to other woman when being in a relationship (they are 4 and 6 so probably won't understand) what the hell do I tell them. They probably won't be bothered other than the fact the Xbox won't be here and we will have to walk everywhere.
Their dad isn't involved much and it's had a bad impact on them recently. I'm worried this might tip them over the edge for a few month.
I'm splitting up with him regardless.
Any advice? Comfort me please? ðŸ˜