My partner is going through a period of depression which I think is exacerbated by the menopause. She says she feels numb and has told me to not text, call or write. We argued a few days ago because I had lost patience (she has been critical and withdrawn for a few days) and stormed out. That is when she told me no contact. She did call following a text I sent asking me what I wanted to ask. I wanted to ask are we ok? will this blow over? We are due to get married and I have no idea if this is going ahead. I feel I can't take any more and I don't know what the right thing to do is? If I don't contact her, will she contact me? Everything is so uncertain. Please help.