so my kids Step Aunty who they love stopped coming to visit about a year ago . Her husband comes on his own , i dont know if he tells her .
I had a. emotional affair ( fb contact with'first love' blah blah cliched story that thankfully ended but caused huge distress / depression that was a follow on from depression after my children were born and other life exp. my husband supportive and patient , he loves me very much .
So Aunty told my kids she suspected i was having an affair , Ive got furious shouted down the phone , she denied it , ive blocked her . Have i done the right thing ?
My husband and kids will be very sad that she is not in there life anymore.
I just think she should have spoken to me not my kids ? I feel an overwhelming desire to protect what is most dear to me, my kids and husband, but also feel guilty that they will not have her on thier life now.
your views pls , Yes know I'm far from perfect .
But does anyone have the right to judge.?