Ex messaging Merry Christmas

[Herewegoagain202]

After no messages in 2 months. Why? Just being polite or...?

Was it personal? Or could it has been sent to many?

Because he wants a shag.

People get lonely at Christmas

Instagram and Facebook is full of photos of happy couples so people start texting out of the blue

Then they change there minds at new year ime

Ego will be stroked if you reply.

Do you want to get back with him? I'd be weary reading things into a text message that takes 30 seconds to type.

Ex text me the same thing with a cutesy pet name he used to call me ...

Changes nothing. Block him.

Testing the water...

Text him back with “Fuck off.”

Agree with above poster, he’s testing the water, I’ve had this done to me and I’ve not replied and blocked. Also agree it’s a lonely time of the year for some. Depending on your feelings and how you broke up it’s up to you how you want to proceed.

Narcissist hoovering?

Text back - wrong number.

And then block.

Send to all - unless it was more personal than that : pure laziness. Or all of the above.

Text back UNSUBSCRIBE

'Who is this?'

Because he wants a shag

Mine sent me a xmas card with lots of xx. First contact in months. I messaged him back 'thanks & merry xmas', that will keep him quiet for a while longer.

Text back UNSUBSCRIBE

Genius!

He's seen all his mates happily coupled up on Facebook, and now wants to make contact out of the blue for a shag
Don't pander to his ego.

I don’t know your particular situation OP could be entirely harmless; feeling lonely at Christmas and just reached out but it could be more sinister.

I’ve been utterly hounded by my ex over the last month and it ramped up up significantly as Christmas neared. My ex has a real fear of being alone and he will go to great lengths and cause masses of pain to ensure he’s not alone. I checked my maintenance he pays in this month and he overpaid passively (10 times!). Then an accompanying email explaining that he wanted our daughter to have everything and he feels guilty for not being around aka he wants a shag and some Christmas lunch.

Send him packing op

Shirt pp, return that money fast or he'll use it for leverage! Nothing comes free from people like him! They don't give gifts, they give obligations (or 'now you owe me's').

Agree he's looking for some action. The fact it's Christmas is a great cover as he can say he's just being polite.

Narcissist seems a stretch from one text.

Unsubscribe is hilarious!!

We went out for 4 months never had sex though so i'm not sure he'd get in conract for a shag?

I think it must've been a general text to everyone. I replied thanks you too then he replied thanks then i replied you welcome then he replies with an emoji that we used to use a lot in our chats. It's like he always wants to have the last say even if it's a dumb smiley face emoji.

Maybe he's lonely but i doubt it as he's doing those good nights chat from what i see on his whatsapp 'last seen'... so i think he's got someone. He did say he wants us to be friends but then disappeared for 2 months radio silence.. maybe thats when he was busy with a new love interest?
Ugh i think block and delete is the best way forward but a sick part of me dont want to miss any texts. I do know that i dont want to be in a relation with him i just miss him a lot.

To be clear i had already texted him back before i posted this.

Trying to get the ride off you.

Delete and ignore.

Op, it is not about who says the last word, but about being the one who didn’t care to reply.

Next time, IdiotInDisguise, next time... 😞

Could be sending to all contacts saved in his mobile/friends on facebook and he meant nothing by it?