So sick of everything

[Smeghead90]

Had the shittest Xmas, gone nc with my controlling family a few months back. Struggling with 2 children who have a very rare condition. Now my daughter has told her dad that my dp has said something to her that he didn’t I did about why me and my mum and dad (her nan and grandad) don’t speak basically saying that the favoured her over my other 2 children that’s one of the reasons we don’t speak. So had her dad on the phone last night telling me that he’s going to come round today and have a “chat” with dp. Now my dp doesn’t want to be around when dd is here in case she tells her dad the wrong thing again and it kicks off again. So I’m stuck in the fucking middle of this shit storm yet again. Merry fucking Christmas

Firstly, how old is your daughter?

She’s 9 going on 19!

Bumping this

Call him - tell him that your partner didn't say it, that you did, because it's true and you are handling it. I can't see what it's got to do with him anyway. It's your family, not his and you have dealt with it.

AND find out why your daughter said it and what she was hoping to achieve.

I have, hes calmed down now. My dd lives with her dad and stays with me 2 nights a week, she went to stay with him around 2 years ago due to my severe depression which is now thankfully under control. I just feel like my best is never good enough for anyone. On xmas day she opened her presents and couldn't wait to leave to go her dads sisters party. I also worry what my mum and dad are saying to her about my dp they are very close to her as she lived with them for 3 months before going to live with her dad permanently. I think this is also the reason that they favour her over my other 2 children.