Having a wobble

[user1471429975]

Hi just having a little wobble tonight, single 40s no children and just really feeling it. I have older family so not totally on my own but they have already gone too bed

Me too! Do have children but not here, so on my own. Thought I'd be fine but feel like shit.

We are with you in spirit, my friends.....

I am also without my daughter tomorrow. Will raise a glass to you,,,,

Same here poorly newly single kids away cancelled parties tonight as ill and no family nearby

I have two children. They are here with me but asleep. I am also feeling completely shit

And me, son on holiday in New Zealand, daughter with her dad. Feel like *, but that's the same as every year. I hate Christmas, and have done since I left their dad. As for my daughter, she says 'you made your bed......'. I'll be glad when everything is back to normal.

Hello fellow wobblers , thanks for the lovely messages- I’m usually ok but finding it tough this year.

I’m on my own too - recently single, kids with their dad until tomorrow night, lost a lot of “friends” in the break up with husband. I’m so strong most of the time, but really feeling it tonight.
Hope everyone makes it through Christmas fairly unscathed!

I had a little wobble earlier. Single parent to one. Been alone for 10 years and achingly lonely tonight. 99% of the time I am fine. It sucks today though

@user1471429975 with you there. Single. 40s. Siblings have own families. Seeing parents tomorrow and rest of family on Boxing Day however have another 10 days of no plans. Live on my own. Friends and families have plans over festive period so no chance of socialising. Never thought I would say this but am looking forward to going back to work in the NY.

It’s all heightened at this time of year isn’t it, the perfect gift, too many soppy Christmas films !

My two older kids are with their dad this year so it's just me and six year old dd. She's now in bed so I'm on my own. Had a bad break up and was meant to with him tomorrow. I'll be on my own as of 4pm tomorrow. Worst Xmas ever. Really feel for you all. I've had a good cry

My teen has already gone to bed unheard of expect on Christmas eve
I have the family room to myself, Dh is off doing god knows what. I'm loving the quiet, I'll have a cuppa in a bit.

I was fine until I started walking around M & S, buying my meal for one. I don't even really want to say anything to people in RL because I'm sure they would be mortified that I'm upset. But I do feel rubbish. Hoping I feel better tomorrow, could do with better TV and not sloppy films!

I’m going to watch eastenders to remind me that things could be worse 😂

I’m alone this evening too, gutted that there is nowt worth watching on tv. Surprised as I thought there would be something half decent. Glad I have sky. Just going to watch something on sky cinema.

So sorry guys, I know my ex-wife had a dreadful time with multiple miscarriages, I think it affected her during our break up awfully.

Wobbles are allowed though.

Hope everyone has been ok today xx

The tv is better. I’m happy :-)

Hi. I'm having a post Christmas day wobble. Felt really lonely yesterday and today. No close family or children.

I've been going to bed ridiculously early thinking "I'll feel better tomorrow"

Lots and lots of wobbles. Very tempted to have an ill-advised saucy reunion with ex ‘dp’ last night. Fortunately was invited out by friends and forced myself to dress up and go out despite exhaustion.
Was fun and a great distraction despite/because of (?) being offered a threesome/invite to future sex parties , made me laugh as I’d been feeling so old an unattractive knowing my ex dp was actively comparing me to exes ten years younger than me... and no I didn’t go

Seems like there is a few of us here. 44 and single for nearly 3months. 3 girls with there mother. Spent xmas eve and dinner together (slept in separate rooms) but destroyed me when I left. Spending new yr on my own doing nothing.

Aww bless ya. I was planning nye with kids but exh has changed it so am now partying. I beer between relief I’m single and heartache for the closeness we had (not exh, recent bf)
He posted a really sad post on soc media as it’s a sad anniversary for him today, I saw the pic and his comments and his friends comments and it just broke my heart.
Obvs I still love his face but it also kind of made me understand why he doesn’t let go of these stupid relationships with exes.
I wish dearly things could have been different but my mental health was going so fast down the pan.
I hope you can find peace and happiness @Justaordinarybloke are you still in love with her or dosas about the family and the whole Christmas vibe?

I'm still in love with her, that's what's making it harder. Was together 15yrs.

Wow. 15 years is a long time.

Going to try asking her on a date in a wk or so.