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How do I get over him

12 replies

pinkduckie · 24/12/2019 01:49

Any tips to help me get over my ex please. I'm broken :(

OP posts:
lexiepuppy · 24/12/2019 02:15

Write an ick list. Write down everything that was horrible about him and remind yourself daily he wasn't perfect.

Delete him off of social media.

Every time you want to contact him or start thinking of him watch a relationship video on YouTube by:

Matthew Gusset
Alex Cormont
Susan Winters
Derrick Jaxn
Russell Brand

Mark Groves

Put anything that reminds you of him or he gave you into a box and put it out the way.
Don't listen to music that reminds you of him.
Delete photos.

Work on your self esteem.
Get a new haircut and treat yourself gently.

Just remember he was a wanker and he didn't deserve you. Xmas Grin

lexiepuppy · 24/12/2019 02:16

Gusset = Hussey

Matthew Hussey

lilyrayne · 24/12/2019 02:30

I'm in your boat hun I feel your pain xx

cheezy · 24/12/2019 02:35

Me too. It’s awful.

lilyrayne · 24/12/2019 03:20

Right before pissing Xmas too !! X

shitwithsugaron · 24/12/2019 03:32

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Loveablers · 24/12/2019 04:17

Go no contact if you haven’t already

Staying friends with someone you’re in love with doesn’t work

lilyrayne · 24/12/2019 04:27

Just ended a 3 year relationship as he was to afraid of confrontation and didn't want to be the bad guy. Time to get angry time to start seein them in a new light, if they can treat you this way they are not worth your time effort or tears. I have had 2 hours sleep tonight and have work in a few hours 😫 take care of you ! 💕

pinkduckie · 24/12/2019 04:35

Thank you everyone for your words!

I had an abortion a few weeks ago so I think I'm just feeling vulnerable. We were together for 3 years but the pregnancy, his behaviour after finding out and the abortion were the final straw for me :(

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Isthisridix · 24/12/2019 07:43

I wasn’t able to move in until I deleted all the messages and photographs.

I deleted my entire playlist and started again, as too many songs reminded me of us.

Spend time with people who love you.

I got hugely into exercise which helped.

The final piece of the puzzle was falling for someone else! Someone much much better for me than my ex.

You’ll get there OP and I promise, things will feel so much better Flowers

sadladytoday · 24/12/2019 08:05

A list defo helps

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