Hi , for the past 15 years I’ve been spending New Year’s Eve with my elderly inlaws we all go out for a family dinner , ok the in-laws have health problems , however my mum has vascular dementia & was placed in a nursing home two years ago my dad has been on his own , this year I’ve decided to invite him round to mine for New Year’s Eve my husband is going off on one saying I’m
Selfish and doing it to spite him as his parents have booked the same restaurant for new year , I think he’s selfish my elderly dad is on his own my inlaws have family around them . It kicked off in our house this morning I feel that it’s become habit every year they don’t even ask any more just assume we’re going , am I being unreasonable ? My dad wouldn’t go to the restaurant .