I have been with my husband for 14 years or so, we have a little girl who is nearly 2. Over the last 8-9 months or so, I just don't feel like I love him any more. It's the typical 'i love you, but I'm not in love with you' thing. It's not his fault at all- of course there are things that annoy me about him, probably highlighted by having a little one,but he is a great husband and a great dad. Im just not bothered if we spend time together, not interested in sex at all, and even cuddles i have to resist the urge to shirk away. Im not going to split up with him, in the grand scheme of things (his happiness, our little girls happiness) it is not worth it, especially as I'm not even miserable (yet). But I need to get 'that loving feeling ' back somehow. Any ideas?