Hello!
I'm delving into this world.
I'm a bit nervous.
We've DTD so it's less about that but navigating two females interacting because all my previous relationships is based in M/F relationships and I'm now seeing how much I thought/think in binaries.
Beyond usual stuff like taking it slow etc, is there any specific advice or experience please??
Also, can you please advise, I have kids (aged 10&8). They've met her as a friend (when she Was a friend). Do I now make sure they don't interact or will it be harmless (if she doesn't mind) that she comes with us on a walk etc occasionally? This is more of a Potential question. With men I've dated, I obviously haven't introduced then for AGES and introduced two on a little day trip - light and friendly. I am just adding this to illustrate that I don't habitually introduce random dating partners to my kids.
In this situation though my kids have no idea about this and wouldn't suspect it. She has been a friend for over a year if that makes a difference. And I don't mean letting her stay over or Anything weird and intense like that , but I mean coming on a walk with us (probably with other families with us too). Sorry, I'm anxious about this. I am happy to NOT invite her along, I am just trying to get my head around whether this would be OK or not if the opportunity arose.
Thanks you. Links to any further reading appreciated.
Thanks