So tonight DH and I had a minor falling out, as he got tetchy because he wanted to watch the football and all wasn't perfect for him to do so I.e. kitchen after meal needed tidying and DC about. I told him that he wasn't pulling his weight and he said having a pet in our house stresses him out and so he can't bring himself to do the other stuff (cleaning, tidying, etc.). If we didn't have the pet (my idea) then it wouldn't be a problem.
He started on about the clothes being on the stairs (which I have washed, dried and unloaded but hoped he might have taken up). It all annoyed me so much I went upstairs and cleaned the bathroom. Literally to the point of using hair pins to fish out the gross bits of hair and soap in the drains, etc. He was downstairs and loaded the dishwasher. He hasn't wiped the table or put the chicken carcass in the bin or anything else. He then sat in the living room watching a film and didn't even tidy the toys in there.
He came up and immediately started moaning. He said the bed needed changing and "that was more important that the bathroom". It's beyond annoyed me! I've had to come downstairs as I'm so annoyed!!!!!