I'm needy aren't I .... slap me please

[caranxy]

New relationship ... long distance so only seen him once. Message every day . Initially he'd message immediately after reading but last couple of times it can be hours before he replies and within that time I'm tearing my hair out , thinking he's gone off me, getting bored, just not that into me etc etc

I know I need to chill but it's so hard
Anyone else like this and any tips how to cope gratefully received

put your phone out of reach... be unavailable too.. for a bit..

You’ve only met once? I don’t think you could call this a “relationship” in good faith. I think you need to toughen up and prepare for the worst. Have you met on OLD?

God yes, the start of things is hard. Distraction is your friend! Netflix, ring friends etc.

And yes, too soon to say relationship.

I managed to get through it and have finally chilled out after a year 😜

Long distance relationship with someone you've only met once? That sounds like a recipe for disaster.

@Mumteedum are u still with him ?

It's not a relationship - it's a guy you're talking to.

Maybe suggest meeting up again?

What do you get our of this OP? Are there any plans to see each other again or consistently or move it forward? Having met once really isn't a lot to go on. Have you agreed you are exclusive based on this?

It seems like quite a negative experience...