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How Can I be happy and sad at same time!?

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lora1231 · 17/12/2019 13:44

I've found myself in a really weird place in my current relationship. It's like, I can't imagine life without him but I feel so under appreciated by him. Don't get me wrong there are times where he obviously stops and thinks and he says all the right things and thanks me. But then day to day it's like I'm just forgotten. Not horribly but just, I feel like I get in his way unless I'm helping him out sometimes.

And cause of all these feelings the small stuff is really starting to bother me. Like we had plans to go cinema last night but I got in from work and he said he was too tired to go so he laid on sofa all night watching tv barely talking to me. However this evening he's found the energy to go out with his buddies and it's making me feel second best when I'm the one who does most for him!!

Anyway, rant over haha basically has anyone any advice how to bring this up with him without sounds needy!?

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EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 17/12/2019 14:54

How long have you been together? Do you live together? Do you have DC together?

ohwheniknow · 17/12/2019 14:57

That sounds really shit. I think you need to raise the bar.

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