Dp called me a stupid fat bitch

[tearsandtiaras]

Just that really.

I am sadmy weight is a real insecurity.

God, he sounds awful. Does he normally say things like that?

Does he often call you names ?
He is an arse
I would be furious , what are you going to do ?

I'm so sorry he was so unkind to you. Perhaps it's time for you to consider calling him an ex?

What a dickhead, don’t listen to him.

Does he have a history of this?

Are you kicking him out or are you flouncing out?

He is verbally abusing you as a means to control you. Please read why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft, it's in there, and using the insult 'fat' is a common abuse tactic. There's not much else to go on, but when strangers on the internet show you more compassion and kindness you know what needs to be done. You can do it

So sorry this absolute tosser has made you feel like this

The fact he has to insult you to feel better says more about him than you. He's a sad, insecure loser

Has he done this before?

You are worth so much more

That would be the end for me. I might be a stupid fat bitch, but I'm not stupid enough to stay with someone who told me that to my face.

Whatever your size, whether it's an accurate description or not (I'm definitely far and there's no glossing over it), he used it as a nasty, callous insult. There's definitely never any glossing over THAT fact. Please know you're worth more.

The reason why we have a partner/bf is because it makes our lives better.if he makes you feel bad by being cruel and nasty, what's the point? You can do so much better. That sort of insult would be literally unforgivable to me. LTB.