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Has anyone managed to do this?

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Chrsitmasishere123 · 14/12/2019 10:01

Hi all
Has anyone managed to raise their children with a partner who they were separated but still lived unde one roof?
I'm justvstrugging to see how this is doable and if actually this is healthy for children?
Not being exposed to a healthy relationship even if we manage to stay civil.
We have 4 children youngest 18month and me going to work is not an option as wage would go purely on childcare.
We don't qualify for any benefits.
Dp's main issue (or at least that's what he says) is that he doesn't want to miss out on seeing the kids every day and not be part of their lives and I understand this however at the moment we are just arguing and not getting on at all. He will not accept that our relationship is over and i think he will live in denial for as long as he can!
Has anyone been in this situation?

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