Hi all, I really don't know where to start ,
But over the last year me and my best friend have become not as close since the birth of my son & 4th child.
She has 1 little boy who she spoils take out places etc.
Any way over the last year I desided to join the bodyshop at home to give us some extra pennies for the children and her some bits done around the house.
I really struggle with leaving my youngest so not gone to many meetings, and my bf babys dad has issues with his wrist to the point he often is in so much pain he can't move it. So choose not to go. My friend is always moaning and saying its sad that I don't go.
Moaning and saying its sad im not attending the xmas meal. TBH im not a huge eater so feel its a waste of our money to sit there with a glass of water or coffee (I don't drink fizzy or alcohol) and toddler size meal. She also said people think my boy friend is controlling.
I honestly don't see how he is as the year before I had a mental brake down, and he was there every step of the way. Let's me have as much money as needed. And so forth. He lets me do what i please with in reason. And not many ppl have met my boyfriend. also I don't make much effort with my self. tbh I'm to busy with the baby half the time or elder 3 to even be asked. When I told her this her response was , ok hun.
I feel like she dont beleave me.
We both was friendly with 2 other mums 1 stoped talking to me as we didn't agree on somthing, then a few months later her and my best fell out, she was quite hurt by this as dotes on her baby. So feel she may of learned her lesson as got him so much and baby sat. I'm not really bothered about that with my son as she get him bits here n there.
As she knows I got most of it covered clothes and got wise even though my 3rd is 10. But more upset about the baby sitting the 1 and only time ive asked her , as my boyfriend is due surgery to fix his wrist (yay) at 1st she said yeah sure shed love to. Now saying I should stay at home not support him and send him on his own. So I've desided to just take him with as got no one else not worth arguing over. She's aways pulling my partner down, because he dont work and is my carer, saying he should go to work instead, and its sad we don't often share same bed or make love go away just the 2 of us. And so forth. We are quite happy with things that way tbh. I'm free to relax around him and not walking on egg shells like I was with my ex husband.
Just wondering really is she right is it sad that I choose to be with my children and boyfriend ? And not intrested in spa trips and such.