Hi all and thanks for listening.
Separating from husband after years of ea and lies which he fully accepts. Completely lost trust in him and his behaviour has killed any feelings I had for him. Told him last December it was over and have given him time to get used to it, we have three ds age 14, 11 and 6. The eldest knows we are separating but the younger two don't. Have been living together as he refuses to accept it's over, separate rooms etc but it's now becoming unbearable. Have continued as desperate to keep the kids in their home and he agreed I could buy him out. He's now gone back on that and said he's going to make things as difficult as possible. I cant cope with another year like this and have decided I have no option but to sell the house and move with the kids. He cannot afford to buy me out and I am the primary care giver. Absolutely gutted as my eldest has already said he wants to stay in the home and it's going to be so disruptive for the kids, but he says he doesn't care, if we aren't living in the house as a family we all have to move out. Am going to view two properties and if they are suitable an going to have to tell kids and put our house on the market. Need to resolve things but hate hurting the kids. Any tips? X