confused

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I recently started dating a girl I have knew for 10 years and worked together at my last job (she was married at the time (16 years with a child )

so we recently started speaking on fb to find out her man had been cheating on her, so i was giving her comforting messages ect then we ended up sleeping together on the first night and have been seeing eachother ever since, but she has recently backed off and said she doesnt know how she feels and our whole seeing eachother has been just us whos knows due to her being a private person, she is still married and her man is still seeing this other girl, I as the typical man have been asking whats up ? whats changed ? after 8 months seeing eachother, the conversations getting less and less she then hit me with the friendzone but came to my house and slept with me and seen her 3 nights in a row after that. we have been talking on instagram mostly me talking first about wanting to meet up with her. for her to ignore it saying she needs space and without sounding sad

I continue to speak to her, But today i sent a message saying i dont think i can be friends with her but want to meet up in a few weeks and see what happens for yet another message to be read and not responded to...

I fell in love with this girl now im in a real downstate on Anti depressants over it all

I dont know what to do ?

It seems she doesn't know what she wants. You want her, so perhaps give her an ultimatum, either she wants you or she doesn't. If she doesn't, break all contact and move on. There are some wonderful people out there. Perhaps she's not the right one for you.

She's confused. She doesn't know what she wants. Back off and give her some space. Anything could have happened to change her mind. It would probably be best to start going out and about and enjoying yourself - try to put it out of your mind.

She’s a married woman. And now she’s a cheat too. She thought her DH was the bad one but two wrongs don’t make a right and now she’s as bad. You’re not looking too good in this either. You slept with a married woman.

It would have better if you’d not done that. She was vulnerable. Her heart was initially probably breaking because of her husband and you’re right in there taking advantage. Her heads been wasted by everything going on and she doesn’t know what she wants.

I’d back off. She will either sort her marriage or they will split up.

If she does leave him I would advise not dating too soon after she splits with him or you will be a rebound relationship guy and she will break your heart.