I have changed my name. I am a divorced woman in my early 60’s and I am very confused. After my divorce I joined a local singing group, just to get me out of the house. I made several new friends. One woman in particular. We started to meet for coffee outside of the group. Recently she confessed that she has feelings for me. I am flattered but confused. We have kissed. I enjoy being with her and have loving feeling towards her. On Saturday we had dinner at her house and to cut a long story short we went to bed together.
Does this mean I’m gay? I don’t know what is happening and I’m dreading telling my children. Does anyone have any advice? Thank you.