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Red flag early on?

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Winterwonderland10 · 08/12/2019 19:38

Spoke to a guy last year, met him via OLD. He didn't seem interested and it fizzled out. He was OLD again recently so I thought I'd give it a chance. We matched and talked again. He seemed alot more keen this time. He rang me and we spoke and he was asking me questions about what happened with the person I had been seeing. Telling me what happened with the girl he was seeing. Saying she said they didn't have much time to see each other.

I had my work night out and he offered to take me even though I hadn't met him before. So I didn't message him as I was out and busy.

I had a bad hangover yesterday so didn't message him. I get a text later in the day saying "well I thought it was going well 😂" I replied what do you mean? He said us chatting and I said I've been busy. He replied "I thought you didn't want to talk to me anymore, you can say if you don't want to talk to me anymore though? Thought we were doing better than last time"

These are red flags aren't they?

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Winterwonderland10 · 09/12/2019 21:53

So this guy rang me tonight, i didnt answer. Then i get a call from a private number, didnt answer as i think it was him. So i decided to message him and tell him to stop calling me. I said i feel he is being too full on, i hardly know him and i dont want drama so its best we stop talking. He doesnt understand how he made it awkward or what he has done wrong even though i've told him.

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