Hi,
I don't know if this is a 'problem' or if I'm over reacting because it's that time of the month and when that happens everything hits me at once.
My partner of 10 years who I live with went to his works Xmas do the other night and got very drunk. The next day he was telling me about the antics they all got up to on the night out. But mentioned that another guy who he works with in his team was really really drunk and kept kissing him. I thought maybe jokingly on forehead or whatever like lads do but he said no on the lips..
My partner saw me shift or feel uncomfortable and quickly changed the subject. When I tried to bring it up again he got defensive and said that it was all a joke and I'm blowing things out of proportion.
Maybe I am? Like I'm glad he told me, but I also feel odd about it , like if it was a woman who kissed my partner I would feel odd too so I don't know why I should treat this differently...
Sorry it's a bit of an odd one I know