The first thing that I asked him when we started chatting if he was married. He told me that he was single. He, later on, changed it to he has been living in his mother's house for the last five years. We are in different countries but one hour away.
He has visited me and said I am also welcome to visit him.
We attended business events when we met and got on well as he stayed in a hotel nearby.
I posted some pictures of us together at the business event. The next day, he freaked out and told me not to post any pictures on social media as his son was upset. I have never met his son, his son is not on my friends' list and I have never added him as a friend on Facebook.
Yesterday, he ghosted me and I did not push it. I had made up my mind to block him this morning when I saw a message from him that he was busy yesterday. We are both busy people, but he is always on his phone, finding just a few seconds to reply does not take that long.
He has told me that he had been upfront with me from the beginning about being married. I checked the chat again and it's clear that he told me that he was not married.
He has never mentioned that they were separated, only that when they go away together they sleeps in different rooms. He has rung but I did not pick up his calls or answered his texts.
I cannot even bring myself to understand my state of mind at the moment - I feel so upset as I made it clear that I did not want to be with a married man. He obviously lied to me.