Hello. My partner left me recently. He had several broken relationships behind him but I thought I would be the one to end all that because we had known each other for many years and had wanted to be together. We had a relationship for some time when we were younger but I had some problems that I couldn't cope with and I ended the relationship. When we finally had a second chance we jumped at it. Now he has someone else. I fee like I want their relationship to fail - not out of nastiness, but because I want to know that it wasn't just me. It wasn't just that I wasn't good enough. I don't want to be the last failure and then him get married and live happily ever after. What I really would like to ask though, is why, when he left me, does he speak to me like he can't stand me? I have been really kind and friendly, no threats, I've kept my dignity. Communication by telephone - about mortgage matters, nothing more - makes me feel like he can't stand me. I feel discarded. I feel like I heard my on heart break in two :'(