I'll try to keep it as short as possible, I'm just looking for some advice from people not connected irl
My husband and I have had problems for the last few years, he is miserable and jealous. I have said I am leaving multiple times but never have, mainly due to practical reasons and how he reacts. I left recently and stayed with a relative but he was awful and it was making the situation far worse for my two DC. He was saying he would kill himself, passing messages through the DC and wouldnt leave the house.
There are also issues around sex but I won't post that here.
Now I've come back I feel trapped, and angry at myself as I had finally felt free, just slightly. I want to end things properly, but as he won't leave my house I am finding it difficult, which I know is very unreasonable as I could rent a new house. I just feel like the DC will cope better if they have their own rooms, plus we have pets so finding somewhere new will be very difficult.
Can I make him leave? He is on the tenancy agreement. I want to have a plan fully sorted so that I can make the move and stick to it.
He is trying to make an effort since I have been back, which makes it harder because I feel like I am going crazy and maybe it's just me who has the problem and I should just suck it up and get on with life.
Any advice would be much appreciated!