I have been seeing this girl for the last 4 weeks (we met in a dating app). Everything was going fine first 2 weeks, we went out twice, had long conversations and ended up having sex after our 3rd date. We had 2 bottles of wine that night so sex wasn't the best but we ended up cuddling and kissing until the morning. She was very enthusiastic the next few days, exchanging lots of texts and she asked me to go and watch a movie but cancelled last minute due to work. She kept apologizing and arranged another date for 2 days later, but also cancelled last minute due to work!
I kept it cool and asked her to reschedule again when she is less busy, but I also asked her if she is actually interested. She said yes with a very long reply, saying things are crazy at work, but our texting rate slowed down after that (I was also away for work that week). Still, we agreed to go for dinner last Wednesday in a restaurant, I made the reservation, only to find out 1h before our date that she is not coming.
Again she replied with a long text, that her personal life is complicated, she said she was going to text me the night before but her mind went blank as she feels too close to me etc. And asked me to meet for coffee to talk more in person. I was pretty angry but sent her a calm text, asking her to pick the time and the cafe and i'll be there. It has been 3 days now and she hasn't responded. I know that she broke up 2 months ago and her ex was still around. I know this is ridiculous but I want to speak to her again. Should I just wait or send her another text to meet?