I think I'm losing the plot

[sheldonismyspiritanimal]

I've met a guy, well I met him briefly last year one evening through a friend, we briefly chatted on Facebook for a few days then that was it.
We met again a few weeks ago, same event but he was with his fiancé (they weren't together the previous year).
We reconnected on Facebook, said hi and that was it.
He's now split with the fiancé as she was unfaithful, we started talking about how difficult we have found it to find someone who wants a relationship.
We started chatting about wanting children, he has 2 teenagers & marriage.
We spent so long chatting and we've both said we are falling for each other.....but it will never work as there is an ocean between us.

But I just can't stop thinking about him.

Plus it's all talk.

'Oh boohoo it's so hard to find a relationship' pft, 'bitch, please, sell me what you think I want to hear some more'.

He has two children and he's been married. His recent fiancé cheated (he says) and he's yacking about wanting to get into another relationship.

Calling bullshit.

He wants to have someone stroke his ego, that's all.
You are an ego boost. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Or you fantasising about something more. But don't believe it's more than what it really is.

You know nothing about him, he's selling you a story and you have caught a crush. It happens. But don't kid yourself.

What do you mean about an ocean between you - literally, or figuratively speaking??

Literally. He's in another country.

I know I shouldn't get too much into it and it's all talk, but he's so in my head

Feel like it wasn't meant to be - after it didn't initially progress.

But who knows! Holiday?

He split a few weeks ago and hes already having deeo and meaningful conversations with you.

Fiancée - a serious relationship then
And a betrayal he says.
Surely should be taking time to heal and reflect.
Not chatting you up.

Doesnt seem like much of a catch.

Also, give him space to figure out what he wants. Might want to work it out.
Back off!