Sending sexy pics to partner

[Sansei]

Hi all, regular bu NCed for obvious reasons

I am in a new-ish relationship (1 year) and I have recently started sending a few sexy pics and videos to tease DP before our dates. He loves it, I love it!

This is not something I have felt comfortable doing with previous partners but with him it feels fun and enjoyable.

What is the etiquette with this? Anything I should keep in mind? Am I a complete weirdo for enjoying this stuff?

Well revenge porn is a huge thing so I'd be making sure they were deleted after you've had your fun. Far too many women get screwed over by relationships ending and ex's sharing the images.

Just make sure you send it to him , not your parents or children etc

I never show my full face, just in case!

Don’t send anything you wouldn’t be happy seeing on the Internet.

You might get more tips in the sex topic. I’m not quite sure what you’re expecting to hear here.

Fair enough. Make sure you don't show your face or a tattoo/ or something people could easily identify you from.

I would never send anything like that to anyone because you never know where it might end up.

That doesn't mean your partner is untrustworthy, but his phone could get stolen, he could leave it unlocked and his friends could see, it could accidentally get sent to anyone in his address book...

Your face doesn't need to be visible for them to be identifiable - things like piercings, tattoos, jewellery, birth marks, clothing, background (eg. furniture) could all reveal your identity.

I just keep my face out of them and go for an arty type shot. I don't really have any identifiable marks etc. I would just advise to get him to delete and make sure they don't save to cloud etc

I always preferred my date to be excited by the idea of the date. Call me old fashioned but I would like my partner to be interested in me, not my body.

Echo the above, just make sure you can't be identified. Also be aware he might show his mates.

I have never done this due to the fear of revenge porn but if your hiding your face, then go for it!

I wouldn't do it. As a pp said, aside from the possibility of your oh being a perv and sharing them online for other guys to jack off too, his phone could get lost or hacked. I have very limited sympathy for people who don't heed these warnings that are out there all the time, and lo and behold they end up posted online and a victim or revenge porn or something. Its not hard to exercise self control (I yawn at the 'victim blaming' brigade. It's called self preservation) If you don't care if other people end up seeing them cos your face isn't in them, then I think it's actually fine. You're an adult that knows the risks.