I'm not sure why I'm writing on here but think I'm wanting to check I've not fully lost the plot and this isn't normal?
MIL and FIL split up 8 years ago, we don't see MIL because she's decided she doesn't want anything to do with us because we were no longer willing to have it all on her terms, so she's chose to not see two lovely little girls growing up. Anyhow she still speaks to FIL on an adhoc basis (never asks how the girls are) and said last week what are you getting me for Christmas which he said nothing because you don't get me anything and we aren't together anymore. She then said I bet you are getting the girls something to which he said yes. The conversation went on a bit longer and then the subject of when he passes came up (been bit poorly recently) and she said what are you leaving for me and he said nothing it's all being left to the girls. Then she said oh you are looking after them and not me. He pointed out that they are children and if he were to pass anytime in the next 10-15 years will be teenagers, young adults so need any help that can get and he doesn't have much but anything he does have will be for them. She then started moaning at him for leaving them money when he currently pays for ballet lessons for them.
Is this normal behaviour?