I posted on here at the weekend when boyfriend had left me for ex. On Monday he decided he wanted to try and at least make it work. I’m just over 18 weeks pregnant now. I agreed we should try and make it work.
His ex wouldn’t stop texting so I sent her a very long text, trying to be as sympathetic as I can to her situation. She called me without reading the full text and just sounded broken and sad. He told her he was going to be with her and they could raise the baby together, that we weren’t as serious as we were.
And I can tell he’s guilt ridden by what he’s done, but he caused the situation he’s in. She’s 49 and has no kids and feels lonely, and he’s worried she’s going to do something. She’s been telling him how her dad wants to sell his house and move to the city so she can move to his and give us her house. She’s spiralling. I know she’s been in love with him for 15 years, long before I ever met him. He promised her everything then took it away. I don’t know whether she’s saying all this to get his attention or because she may actually be on a downward spiral. And I don’t know what to do. It’s causing stress.
I feel sad for her situation but I’m also sad about the situation he put me in this past weekend. I don’t know what to do.