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Would you take this as a come on or just being drunk?

9 replies

borisblah · 27/11/2019 07:57

Last week had a work night out and shared a taxi home with a male colleague. During the journey he kept putting his hand on my leg. First couple of times I moved them and he took it away but then put it back. In the end I just left it and he didn't do anything else

Not saying this is anything terrible but just feel a bit awkward seeing him at work now. He was drunk but is not normally at all touchy feely so this was out of character.

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Jane1978xx · 27/11/2019 07:59

Erm I’m not sure. I had this with a Male colleague but he was kind of steadying himself leaning to talk. How drunk was he ? If that’s all he did I would just ignore it

borisblah · 27/11/2019 17:06

He was pretty drunk but it was during a pause in conversation and seemed quite deliberate. Not planning to do anything

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AnneKipanki · 27/11/2019 17:07

Ignore

Interestedwoman · 27/11/2019 17:17

That is sexual assault, really.

Jane1978xx · 27/11/2019 23:20

Touching a leg ? I don’t think so.

Whathewhatnow · 27/11/2019 23:23

Shows intent. He fancies you unless he was absolutely plastered when all bets are off.

BastardGoDarkly · 27/11/2019 23:24

Bleurgh. Hopefully he won't remember. But I'd avoid him from now on.

Whathewhatnow · 27/11/2019 23:24

Do you actually want him?? If so... take him out again ;)

If not... grey rock and polite, civil conversation.....

Glitterfisher · 28/11/2019 09:00

FFS, please don't belittle people who have actually been sexually assaulted Interestedwoman.

If he was pretty drunk then you can probably just ignore it if that's what you want, if you like him then it's likely he feels the same.

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