I can't give all details but basically DH lives with me and my DC in my house, it's 2nd marriage for both of us, blended family. We have different parenting styles and no matter how many times I say his way isn't right, it's just different, he doesn't listen and he wants things to be done the way he would like them. Also I was whatsapping him from upstairs about something that had happened that day to do with parenting and trying to put my point across, he ignored the messages. I later found out he had been googling porn. He then apologised for doing this but didn't really address why he was doing that of an early evening instead of answering/acknowledging my messages. I said he must have an addiction if he can't wait until much later to view that on his phone. There is a lot more to this story but I'm wary of saying too much as I'm extremely private. ATM he is out of the house at my request and I just wondered what people with an outside perspective thought.