Been with my husband for over 12 years, married for 3 and have just had a baby of 3 months. Several times during the relationship I’ve found out he’s been messaging/ talkin to other girls online. These are girls he knows not ones he’s met online or anything! Always bordering on inappropriate I’ve always confronted him and he admits he’s wrong n that he doesn’t know why did it but he won’t again, blah blah blah! Anyway just after we got married same thing happened with someone at work same response I was so hurt cos I thought once we were married things would def change. But forgave and carried on. Then just after we had baby a girl started flirty messaging him and he replied nothing too bad but on his part but I was so like why reply at all! Now I’ve found messages again to another girl just privately commenting on half naked pics saying looking well but I’m at the end of my tether! We have a new baby and I don’t wanna make any rash decisions but at the same time I don’t wanna stay and carry on being hurt? I feel like I can never trust him now I’m constantly checkin his phone and laptop! Feel like a crazy lady!! 🙈 I haven’t asked him bout this time cos I’m just so fed up! I really don’t think he has actually cheated but I feel like it’s nearly just as bad?! Should I just pack my bags n leave? Should I just let it go n say nothing? Should I start another argument with the same outcome? I just don’t know anymore!