Talk some sense into me please!

[futuremrsconnor85]

I'm in a relationship, 7 years and a little girl of 2. It's unhappy at the moment, lots of arguements and partner saying we are over and passive aggressive language. Last week an attractive single dad who I vaguely know (brothers friends brother) added me as friend on Facebook out of the blue. There's been an undercurrent of flirting, we have liked each other stories. I'm tempted to send him a friendly message. Please talk some sense into me so I don't!

Don’t, it will complicate things.

If you are unhappy where you are , work on it or leave.

Then get your head straight before dating again.

You know you shouldn't.....it will lead to carnage

Yoire unhappy "at the moment " ....do you love him? Want to work it out or is it over for you ?

If its over, move on with dignity

Then get it on with the sexy single dad

Well I'm not sure if I do love him anymore to be honest. I've told my parents it's unhappy but they begged me to stay together for the house (they gave me a lot of money for a deposit). But I don't want to waste my life being unhappy. Don't know what to do. Hopefully me crushing on another man will pass.

End it with your current partner, if you was generally happy you wouldn't be thinking about this other guy. Don't live a miserable life for the sake of money.

What do you do though when you have nowhere to go and little money? The house is more mine than his but I bet he wouldn't move out.