I've posted previously about a partner not been able to hold down full time jobs in the past he finally manages to hold one down for five years but messes up and gets moved to another site works doing rubbish for council he basically has bad attitude and falls out with people easily he takes time off sick alot that kinda thing works getting strict with him saying he has to get on with it hes on final warnings etc!I am doing same we have no kids but we cannot survive of my min wage job.....like to add I work all hours nights in care to pay my way in life and it's a bloody hard job been st this place 6 months never had aa day off and my work ethos is crack on do your best so I finally have it out with him tell him he sorts himself out sticks to job else I'm gone back to my mums he also spends money like water we on very modest income ge has around two hundred pounds left at end of month...as do I but I'm expected to buy all xmas...car repairs meals out etc his goes on beer and crap so I finally told him tonight he hands over his wages and I count the finances totally he do childlike no sense of responsibility my question am I been mean should I just leave him???or me taking control could mean I now can manage what bit of money we do gave wisely what to do thanks for reading