Do meet another man whilst in relationship??

[Magicstarsz]

Please helpe me I am insane here :(

I have been with my partner nearly 8 years we got together young and have always had quite rocky relationship arguments and have had ups downs this past year as to me mad him spending more time together/dates as we began to fall into the roomate phase of living together. I have since met this man at work I have slowly began to fancy and have tried to block it out my mind but he is just there at work and boyfriend is not ( he rings in sick soetimes) anyway this man knows I have boyfriend and had started messaging me online and we have talked at work and he is everything I would have gone for if I was single. He has also asked me to meet him to go to Leeds this week I want to go but then I come home to my boyfriend and feel like I can't do it?? Jesus this is so difficult what if I never go I keep thinking what if?? I have never felt this way about another guy before in my life ( I'm 26) no kids or marriage but the thought leaving boyfriend upsets me but I can't get this other man out my head.

Anyone else with me?!?! :(

Leave. You're clearly not happy so leave. Then you can do whatever you want.

Your already being dishonest by discussing it and thinking about doing it anyways. Leave your boyfriend & let him find someone who doesn’t want to cheat on him ☺️

I think being is such a long term relationship from a young age can make moving on difficult. But it does seem that you dont want to be with your BF. As such, do the kind thing and break up properly. You dont want to cheat with all the guilt and hassle that comes along with it and you want to be respectful to someone who you did care for.