*TW* Porn use

[ClementCee]

My DP has mentioned that one of his favourite types of porn is ‘step sister’ porn.

I’m struggling with this a little bit. I don’t particularly like him watching porn to begin with but this just seems a bit too far.

I appreciate that I can’t stop him from watching anything and I’m not the thought police but it’s turned me off him quite a bit.

He says that it’s not weird and I do accept that it is an increasingly common genre of porn. I just didn’t expect to be this bothered - Am I being stupid to be bothered by this?

You’ll have lots of people saying how wrong this is, but honestly, you’re over thinking it.

The more outrageous something is, the more daring, or freaky, the more of a turn-on it often is. These days ‘bondage’, ‘threesomes’ and ‘anal’ are pretty mainstream...so stranger genres of porn have come along to take their place.

It doesn’t mean that the viewer suddenly wants to engage in incest. It’s simply naughty.
It personally wouldn’t make a difference to me.

Thanks @DBML.

I think you’re probably right and I just need to try to be a bit more sensible and realistic about things.

Are you happy in other ways? If so, it needn’t be a ‘deal breaker’.

‘simply naughty’?

incest-ish porn is utterly grim, not harmless titillation. ugh.

It would bother me and I would be telling him I find it off-putting.
Porn is getting increasingly weird as each previous ‘niche’ act becomes mainstream.

@DBML - yes, I’m pretty happy in other ways and I do accept that it’s not a reflection on me.

Thanks again.

In that case op, I’d not give it too much thought.

Sleeping with a step sibling is not incest as you are not related by blood.

Its a bit taboo so maybe thats the the thrill.
But you dont have to like it

Tbh OP most of the porn on a websites main page is mainly step this and step that.

@wherearemymarbles

Taboo!!! That’s the word I was trying to think of!

TBH I think it's probably a mistake to talk in too much detail about sexual fantasies and porn - it's probably harmless in most cases but it can be unsettling to your DP, as it is in your case.

As long as he is ready, willing, and able to do what you want when you want want it then he should keep his porn preferences to himself and you should have no need to worry.

I think taboo fantasies are pretty common... I have some. They’re nothing that I ever have the remotest interest in making a reality. When you consider there’s a whole “ Daddy Dom” category of relationships and what that entails someone who has a fantasy about an imaginary step-sister starts to look much more mainstream.

In porn they are acting. In James Bond they are acting. Admitedly the acting in James Bond would be better but neither is real.

Clearly the 2 of you communicate well, as you have discussed this, so if everything else is good, relax.