The short version is...
I am divorced following a long relationship/marriage whereby I found out my husband was leading a double life and having an affair for a large part of the marriage. We have two children. It was not the most perfect relationship but what happened was so unexpected and shocking. I do believe it has left some trauma for me in relation to how I respond to things now.
I have been in a new relationship for a year, this man could not do enough for me and my children. He helps around the house, always puts us all first and is the most selfless person I’ve ever come across. He is smart, successful, a little bit younger and attractive. Yet I feel myself being emotionally cold towards him quite often and Although I am aware of it I don’t seem to be able to stop it from happening. I feel as though I am taking him for granted but don’t know how to stop.
So as I say..... slap me please...