So I go to university I'm studying medical science it's a 5 years degree and at the end I'll be a junior doctor and then after another number of years and more training I'll be a doctor in my specialist field! Anyway I've made that point to say I'm not a stay at home mum (nothing wrong with that obviously) I'm in university 3 days a week and I have to do self directed study so my days are full with studying and being a mum.
Now I do the dreaded school run EVERY morning even the days that I am off and want a lie in. My husband has work 5 days a week and I'll often leave him and our toddler in our bed untill 9.30 then they will both get up peacefully and leave for about 10 (he has his own business) I make sure me and my eldest are quiet so they can sleep as we are up from 7 I stop our dog from running up and licking their faces (as he will try) and I'm just generally considerate of them sleeping!
Last night my partner told me that he needed to be in work a lot earlier today and would take our eldest to school. And luckily it was my day off that day so I instantly thought wow a lie in cuddling a squidgy toddler what could be better ? I prepared the night before so know one would have any reason to wake me up. I heard my daughters alarm go off then I heard his alarm go off and it quickly shut off so I thought ok he's up and I drifted back off. I then got this feeling that I needed to wake up and looking at the time he had 30 mins to leave else our daughter would be late. Our daughter is old enough to get herself up washed and dressed but I always like to make her breakfast and sit and talk with her for a while before school!
Anyway our daughter was ready and thankfully for him had already made her breakfast. He got up and out the room and at this point our toddler was still asleep in our bed .. then the dog who is a big hyper puppy still dives on me licking my face !! I obviously shit myself drag the dog out the room and try to go back to sleep as I bloody needed sleep ! He comes back into the room on the phone to someone 
talking loud and farting. I just stuck my head under the duvet to find some sort of peace ! Then I hear my toddler almost gagging. When I look at her it was obvious that the smell was making her gag ! And she said "so smelly" and all this time he was still on his phone stomping around the room. My toddler is very very much awake now and she is full of energy from the word go!
I went absolutely nuts at him of course I could of cried with anger as I just needed to sleep peacefully like I always let him sleep ! I am so sleep deprived it's unreal as I go above and beyond with my work and with my family. Everyone is so organised because of me I do everyone lunch I cook the dinner clean the house wash the clothes walk the dog wash the dog feed the dog and I'm just not appreciated by my husband at all. I do not ask for a lot but what I do ask for is respect which I'm obviously not getting.
This is more of a rant than asking for advice from a very angry tired woman on the edge and tips would be appreciated though !!