Had a deal with DP earlier, he'd come by Sainsburys after work, pick up dc and give me his Nectar points so I could get some Christmas pressies.
Unbeknownst to us you have to use your app this year, so I suggested he leave his phone. He got really cagey that this wasn't possible and said he'd stay, making it quite awkward as I wanted to buy bloody Christmas pressies that the dc had unwittingly chosen. He got quite arsey about the whole thing, fine, we did it his way.
Tonight I've challenged him saying he clearly didn't want me to have the phone and has he something to hide.... He has been caught out on a major fuck up before via his phone, so had form. He's turned this around and suggested I was relishing in the opportunity to "snoop" in his phone, and claims I'd snooped through his glove box a few weeks ago, and through his phone a few months ago, neither of these are true.
I'm now awake thinking this is classic manipulation, he's turned the whole thing around and accused me of snooping, to deflect from my accusations of him being cagey with his phone.
What do you think, is he being a shit?