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Partner works away

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Jardine2018 · 18/11/2019 21:25

Hey, does anyone have any advice on dealing with a partner who works away. My OH works 6 weeks on, 6 weeks off. We have a 17 month daughter. I am really struggling and lonely and end up being snappy and miserable with everyone including her. Any coping ideas would be appreciated!

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FabbyChix · 18/11/2019 21:53

You make your own life ... can you work a few days you need to basically live for you

Jardine2018 · 19/11/2019 07:16

I'm not on Facebook, but perhaps I should start. I do work 2 days a week but I actually own the company and sometimes that is more isolating than if you were just one of the team.

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Jardine2018 · 19/11/2019 07:19

That sounded really bad, I didn't mean I'm not part of the team being their boss, but I can't really talk to colleagues about my personal life.

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Elieza · 19/11/2019 07:49

Lots of mother and baby groups! Make a life for yourself. The difficulty presumably is when he comes back as by then you will have a routine/activity for every day and then he is suddenly there expecting you do do stuff together!

Jardine2018 · 19/11/2019 08:07

Yes that's the problem, it is the disruption to the routine when he comes back and then when he goes away again it is really hard. I haven't really enrolled in anything as it always seems a waste just to do half of the term. But I think I will do that in January, thanks

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