Hi
I’ve been split from my ex for 8 months - we were together for 8 years. The last 2 years we weren’t living together as he moved out and we were trying to get things back on track while giving each other space. No children - fertility issues. We spent the whole of last Christmas together and were planning on buying a new house in a different town - closer for him to commute as I work from home ( this was one of the reasons we split as I was at home all the time and he had a long commute to work )
It was a shock when he told me that he didn’t want to commit to a house purchase and that he felt under pressure to do this as he didn’t want it ... so in his eyes it was over.
To be honest it didn’t feel over as we would still text/chat etc talk about the dog blah blah blah. I think in my head we would just work it out as we both loved each other .
Fast forward to the weekend and I saw him in a shopping centre with a woman. My heart sunk. She looks exactly like me but younger.
I burst into tears and had to leave ( they hadn’t saw me)
I’m an emotional wreck as I still love him and foolishly have been in hoping we would get back together.
I know he didn’t have to tell me he had started dating again but we were in contact at least once a week.
I know it’s serious with her as I looked on his Facebook page ( he has never been one to post on Fb and there are selfies of them together )
How do I move on ?