wanting another baby

[owend85]

i am desperate for another baby and although my husband has always said he doesn't want another one he said he would have one more if thats what i wanted. i have just had my implant taken out and now he is saying he defiantly does not want another one. i really want one i just don't know what to do?! i feel devastated at the fact that we might not have another child and i'm worried that i will start to resent my husband if we don't. then i'm also worried that if we do have another that he would resent me. what do we do??

There is no common ground with this.
I would put him in charge of contraception. It isn't fair that you are responsible for this because you are at risk of being accused should the contraception fail and I just think it's unkind to ask a person to be in charge when they really want to extend their family.

What are the reasons that he doesnt want another? I think this makes a difference. If it's because hes always just wanted one and doesnt want his life to change any more etc then I think he is not going to change his mind.

If it's because he is worried about finances etc then there may be a compromise to be reached