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Not sure if I am overreacting.

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Dimael · 17/11/2019 21:31

I am studying towards a professional exam so my head is all over the place. My partner went away to a family thing with his mother this weekend. He got home at 2.30 this afternoon but made no effort to see me. I only see him 2 possibly 3 times a week and usually on the weekend. If he was tired from traveling I would have gone to him. I feel so unwanted by him. I won’t spend any quality time with him now until next weekend. Usually when I do see him it is sat on the sofa with his Mum in the room. I’ve cried most of the day and I just don’t know what to do or if it’s me losing the plot. He is 31 by the way! I just want to be loved properly and I feel like second best to his Mum. My confidence is so low and I feel depressed and anxious. Please help me.

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Jaxinthebox · 17/11/2019 21:34

ditch this man child and concentrate on your exam. You are not getting what you need or want from this relationship.

Lozzerbmc · 17/11/2019 22:25

31? he sounds like he’s much younger. I think its run his course i’m afraid he sounds very immature...

SweetAsSpice · 17/11/2019 22:29

Does he still live with his mummy?!

No, OP. I’m 31, moved continents, made 2 humans, etc.

Everyone lives a different life, and mine is by no means perfect nor aspirational, but if he still lives at home at 31...run.

HeddaGarbled · 17/11/2019 22:58

I don’t think him not seeing you after being away for the weekend would be a problem normally. The problem is that you don’t see him without his mum being there. That’s not normal.

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