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What to do?

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Hopeless101 · 17/11/2019 14:51

Not sure what to do, warily this year I found out my partner of 3+ years went to a prostitute... I was pretty upset as you can imagine, he said he wouldn't do it again, 3 months later a week before we were traveling overseas, I caught him out again. When confronted bothti.eshe did not hesitate to tell me the truth. The second time just before our holiday, I was pretty angry, that i couldn't talk to him for 2 days, i seriously concidered cancelling the trip, he convinced me that he wanted to be with me and wanted to take me away so we went. Had a fab ti.e now back to reality, I have started to get a bit angry, I dont know if I can trust him again. I dont have anyone to talk to about this as our friends are our friends... what should I do? Do I try to trust him again? Is it possible. Or do I call it quites

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bangheadhere40 · 17/11/2019 14:58

Call it quits, an ex of mine used hookers
...they say they will stop but they never do.

I don't know why I put up with it looking back.

Dump him.

12345kbm · 17/11/2019 15:02

Why are you still with a man who is putting your health at risk? He has sex with prostitutes, he will continue to have sex with prostitutes. Unless you are happy living with a man who regularly has sex with prostitutes then dump him.

You can't trust him again, you could never trust him. Get an STD test as well. Even if prostitutes use condoms they can still pass on STDs. You are not safe if you stay with him. Do not forgive him. Throw his stuff out and flip him the bird.

AngusThermopyle · 17/11/2019 15:18

Why would you want to trust someone who pays women for sex.? He's putting your health at risk with no care or regard for you.
You will never be able to trust him.
That's what he thinks of you- nothing.

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