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Moving in

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mumest1019 · 16/11/2019 22:33

I am so worried about living together and having that shared home environment and finances. My dp and I are planning to move in together but I am worried. Background, my dp has 3 children (5, 3 and 1) from a previous relationship I now have one little girl who is 2 weeks old. As you can tell from the ages of the children my dp and I have moved pretty fast which is why one of the reasons I am worried. We have known each other for longer than this and I know and knew his ex before he did as well. Is it a good idea to move in now?

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HollowTalk · 16/11/2019 22:43

I'd be very reluctant to lose financial independence, tbh. Unless you're desperate to live with him, I think I'd leave it for a while.

cakeandchampagne · 16/11/2019 22:45

Sincere best wishes to you- but I wouldn’t do it.

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